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July 23, 2009

How does one prove to oneself?

Some time ago, a friend, who had quit recently and was working on his own venture, wondered how we tend to give our best to work that we do for others but fail to give as much importance and effort to our own work. We discussed this at length and wondered if it was the regular income that drove us. But then, one's own venture needs more effort to draw the money. If it isn't money, is it about the reputation and goodwill we attach to our performance in a job? If the results in one's own work are more fulfilling than the results when you are employed, do we work hard in order to prove our merit to others?

In younger days, most of us spoke about 'proving to ourselves'. Does the concept take a backseat as we grow up and 'mature' in life? What does proving to oneself mean, anyway? Doesn't it mean being happy and satisfied with what one does? Or, does it have to do with achieving certain milestones in life, as defined by convention? Or, is it about discovering oneself and making use of one's potential?

A random thought scribbled around midnight...


Deepa said...

I'd say it's the "Vision". It is quite easier when you already have your objectives and goals set for you compared to when you have to do it all on 'your own'. Clarity (it's a very big word) to a certain extent always helps.

Deepa said...

And of course the passion to drive it :)

psachins said...

the perfect writting for prashant .. somehow if the project schedule has something assigned in his name .. be assured that it will never happen in time .. but if someone goes and asks prashant .. yaar ye kaam kar de .. ya fir ye merese nahin ho raha hai ... ya fir ... mereko iski bahot jaroorat hai ..

Tanmoy said...

Just came across ur blog....and the answer to ur question is yes, 'proving to ourselves' has taken a backseat as we seem to grow up and bcom mature indivuals. The problem lies in the importance we give to our image in the workplace. While starting one's own venture, we get laid back and hence lose focus. Perhaps, we all hv bn brought up to work for others and not for ourselves.

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